I have often wondered why I do what I do and why I choose this medium. Why do I love portraits over landscapes? I guess the answer for me is that I am a people watcher. I always have been. I can sit in a mall or down the beach and just get caught up in the interactions that take place. The way people walk and talk, the way they respond in different situations. How we respond differently in the same situations.We are all so unique, but all so bonded by common needs. I am fascinated by the realness in our body language that whispers, yells and shieks, whilst we never utter a word. The way we rub up against each other..sometimes good sometimes bad..it is so very relational and human and yearning for connection. I want to capture that and hold it in space and time to view and share.
My family recently went away camping. We needed to reconnect. We were rubbing against each other and the friction wasn’t good. So we took time out. It didn’t go as planned. In fact the holiday wasn’t great..like dominos each of the girls got sick and were coughing up a storm..high temps, runny noses and generally the whole yukiness that comes with the flu.. Our family time was no hallmark card..no kodak moments to share..but it was real. You had to find the joy in between and in it all, we leaned on each other. We were close.We needed to be together to support each other. It is beautiful. I wonder in this time if I was the observer, what I would have seen? I hope in it all we showed that we were a tight unit, that Love reigned supreme. Not that we didn’t fight and scream and have trantrums, but that we have a cord of love and connection that runs like a lifeline through the fabric of our family tapestry. As we rub bump and connect, need space, need to be held, we always find our way back to our common thread..we need to be loved.
I think that is why I love to capture family in my work. I need to be reminded that we all yearn for that belonging and to have the sweet moments captured reminds me that we are bound to one another. I hope on the days when life is tough and emotions are frayed that my clients can glance at there family images and remember the bond.
I do.
I have to share this as I am reminded of connection in this image.

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